Re: Married...one person "saved", the other isn't...how to cope
I was in the same situation, but my wife was the believer and I was not.
She just lived her life out as she was led, and I watched. This went on for years.
My change came when I met others who lived like she did, and I then realized that I wanted to have what they had.
She still loved me, and she was still my partner, but she didn't push except to ask me occasionally if I wanted to go to church with her. I eventually did.
The only reading you should need is the text where your behavior toward our spouse is given. Showing love, compassion, concern, and understanding will help you through all of it.
Doublethink means the power of holding two contradictory beliefs in one's mind simultaneously, and accepting both of them.